Sunday Stealing - Just Another Meme

 It's Saturday afternoon and I'm procrastinating about going to the gym. At least I am in my gym clothes. 

A couple of things have been marked off my list of things to do. I finished my book. I've started cleaning out a kitchen cupboard. I've done a lot of crochet while watching the UK version of Celebrity Traitors, the latter being great fun, the former meaning I've nearly finished a double bed sized blanket. I've been to meditation, started a new book... and I'm in my gym gear. 

I am going to go to the gym after this. 

Anyway, the questions have been brought to us by Sunday Stealing. These won't take me long, then I'm off to the gym. 

1. Do you have a business card? If yes, what's your job title?

I've never had a business card. I'm between jobs at the moment, but my job title is normally Instructional Designer or Technical Writer. I have an interview on Wednesday. Wish me luck. Still won't be getting a business card. I think that only real estate agents and car salesmen, and the odd banker have them now. 

2. What day of the week were you born?

Monday. I checked this on google - still Monday. Mum wasn't lying. 

3. What vegetable do you refuse to eat?

I'm a slave to my whims. I'll eat most vegetables, but whether I feel like eating them or not is another matter. I've got to be in the mood for whole chick peas (garbanzo beans to the Americans). I'm not that fond of green beans, normally because they're overcooked too easily. Oh, and plain, steamed cauliflower - no thanks. If it's been roasted or covered in cheese sauce, then I'll take it. 

4. How many times have you stayed overnight in the hospital? 

Twice as a kid, and twice as an adult. 

As a kid, I had my legs sorted, and on both occasions, I was in for a few days. As an adult, I was in overnight when they took out my gall bladder, then another time when I was in for 'girlie maintenance' and as I'd had a general anesthetic and was going home to an empty house, they insisted I stay in overnight. I walked the 20 minutes home the next morning. 

5. Do you have more piercings or tattoos?

I've only got my ears pierced, and there is on very small tattoo on my hip. Nobody sees it. 

6. Do you like to shop?

Sort of. I've just realised, thanks to my psychologist, that I have been using shopping as a dopamine hit for most of my life. I'm trying not to shop - or at last I'm trying to buy when I  window shop. It's hard, but I'm getting better at not spending money, especially as I've not got much coming in at the moment. Hopefully the interview on Wednesday will sort that out. 

7. How much cash is in your wallet right now?

I have more than I have had in a long time. A bit more that $100 in notes and around $20 in change. Most of that is because I took in the collection at lodge, but all the banking is done electronically, so I take in the cash and pay them from my account. Normally I have no more that $20 in cash on me. 

8. Let's play MASH: Do you live in a mansion, apartment, shack, or house?

I live in an apartment. 

9. Where are you in the family birth order (oldest, middle child, youngest, or only child)?

Oldest of two. Or oldest of three if you take my step-sister into account. 

10. When you were 5 years old, what did you call your parents?  

Mummy and Daddy - like most five-year-old Australians at the time. This morphed into Mum and Dad a year or so after. I think the change was starting around that time. 

Today's song:

Movie Review: Pressure

Movie Number 43 of 2026

The Movie: Pressure

The Cinema: Hoyts Victoria Gardens

Runtime: One hour 40 minutes

Stars: 4.5

File this one under "Take your Dad."

This is a fantastic film. I am going to say this because it fits some of my criteria. It's a story about the Second World War - the D-Day landings to be precise. It has Andrew Scott AND Brendan Fraser in it - I adore both actors. 

And I'm a big weather nerd. 

This film is lovingly put together, based on the play by the same name written by David Haig, who is best known as Bernard from Four Weddings and a Funeral. Haig is also a very good playwright who had a large hand in transferring this to the screen. 

The movie's premise is simple. In the tense 72 hours before D-Day, General Dwight D. Eisenhower (Brendan Fraser) and Captain James Stagg (Andrew Scott) face an impossible choice--launch the most dangerous seaborne invasion in history or risk losing the war altogether. It all depends on the weather, which is why Stagg is brought in. He's a reluctant addition to the meteorological team, the U. K's best weather boffin he's not welcome among the American weather team. Stagg is up on all the latest technologies for 1944. At the British Headquarters, there's the push and shove of the American Meteorologist Irving Krick (Chris Messina), a more traditional (read delusional) forecaster, but a favourite of Eisenhower. This is a tense, edge-of-your seat movie that gets you in its grip early and doesn't let you go until the last lead is closed. 

The film's tense premise starts at the opening credits, where we meet Stagg going off to headquarters leaving behind his heavily pregnant wife. Stagg is not somebody who's warm and fluffy, but he knows what he's going on, the antithesis of Krick's method of forecasting. 

In the background, Ike and his chiefs of staff, including a wonderful turn by Damien Lewis as Bernard 'Monty' Montgomery who want to get their troops on the beaches. It's a very tense film, but in the best possible way. The battle scenes are well done, hard hitting, but well short of the gratuitous mark. Having been to Omaha Beach, it hit a little bit harder.

Australian Anthony Maras has done a wonderful job directing this. The cinematography is also beautifully done, making this a joy to watch. 

For a film that's ostensibly about weather forecasting, this is excellent. It's an unexpected story, one about those who have to speak truth to power. A story of brains over brawn. 

It's also a film that you can take a friend who loves military history along to as well. Part of me would like to see it again. 

No notes. 

Today's song:

Puzzle Me This

It's been a busy day. 

It's 7 p.m. and I've done close to 16,000 steps. 

It started off with a walk with an old colleague who lives a few streets away. We went along the river having a good chat along the way. She was made redundant about six weeks ago and is only just starting to look for work. After a coffee at the end of the walk, I came home. 

I had a telehealth appointment with my doctor. It was over in five minutes. A couple of repeat prescriptions and one other small matter didn't take long. 

After this, a friend came over for a feet and cards session. That was pretty cook. They'd never had reflexology before. I'd forgotten how much I enjoy doing feet and cards. (Anybody reading this in Melbourne, you know where to find me - especially while I'm off.) This will pay for tomorrow's acupuncture session.)

I've managed to unclog the vacuum cleaner hose. It's amazing what you can do with a broom handle and a wire clothes hanger. Serves me right for hoovering behind the couch. 

Another 50 pages of my book has been read (Pip Williams The German Ward is very good - possibly better as I've read her first two books centered around Oxford - her research is impeccable.)

Then there was Chuck the trainer, who put me through my paces. After the warm-up there was all sorts of horrors. Lat pull downs at with the last round at a personal best weight. There were standing rows. Then came the leg extensions and chest flies. Then dead bugs with a 10 kg plate and wood chops. After this came step ups and dead ball slams, which I refused because I get a bit giddy doing them - so he made me push the sled - which is much preferable to slamming down a dead weight and wanting to throw up. 

I told him that I was looking forward to going back to work - which will hopefully be soon. 

"As long as you're not down to doing a daily sudoku," he told me. 

"I do the sudoku every day." 

"But you're not that old. Grandpas do sudoku."

"And people who want to keep their mind's sharp."

"But it's like crosswords."

"I do the minute cryptic every day. I'm getting better at them. One clue at a time make them easier and Angus is a good teacher." (Angus is on Instagram and he talks you through the solution. He can be a bit of a windbag, but he is a great teacher.)

"So, you're a granny who lifts weights."

"No, I'm a big and strong and tuff-tuff-tuff woman who likes keeping my mind sharp."

"And you crochet. You're a granny."

"Hamish (another of his clients) knits. Are you going to call him a granny?"

"Fair point."

"You have to build your body and mind. Can't have either turn to slush." 

"True. Grandma," he chided. 

I threatened to run over his toes with the sled. 

At least I'm keeping busy. 

Today's song:

Movie Review: Klara and the Sun

Movie Number 42 of 2026

The Movie: Klara and the Sun

The Cinema: Hoyts Victoria Gardens

Runtime: One hour 56 minutes

Stars: 4

Kazuo Ishiguro is one of my favourite authors - and Klara and the Sun, though very, very good, is not my favourite of his works. 

Taika Waititi is a favourite director. I mean, The Hunt for the Wilderpeople, Next Goal Wins and What We Do in the Shadows are comedy gold with huge hearts. When he goes a bit deeper, like in JoJo Rabbit, he hits hard, but with pathos. 

Oh, then there's the Belvedere Vodka add which lives rent free in my head. Just to remind you, this...

Klara and the Sun shows off his softer, mature, empathetic side. Mixed with Ishiguro's cerebral, thought-provoking story, you have something pretty special.

I read the book of the film years ago and remember enjoying it. The story tells of Klara, an AF - Artificial Friend, popular in the post-apocalyptic society for providing friendship to people for whatever reason they need. Klara (Jenna Ortega) is an older model of AF, known for their empathy, something which isn't always valued in society. The film starts at the bargain store where Klara resides with other grandfathering AFs and the Store Manager (Natasha Lyonne). Klara finally gets her chance to be in the window to try to find her family. 

She is adopted by Josie (Mia Tharia) who sees something in Klara that she requires. Her mother Chrissy (Amy Adams) isn't thrilled with the choice, and housekeeper, Melania (Rachel House) is not pleased with her presence around the house. 

A lot of the film is from Klara's point of view, where she has to 'calibrate' to new environments and well as navigate the tricky family situation, external friendships and her AF role in the world. 

The film has quite a bit to say about the use of social media and AI and how this is portrayed in friendship. From memory, the book does a better job at this, while the film verges on pastiche at times.

From memory, overall, the book cuts deeper, however this is a beautifully shot and acted film. 

Jenna Ortega is wonderful as the plucky Klara. She uses her acting gifts to animate her robot characteristics. Amy Adams and Mia Tharia excel as the mother and daughter in a precarious position, while Rachel House and Natasha Lyonne bring the comedic thrust. 

Taika Waititi is at his best when he's wandering the grey areas of dystopia, pathos and emotion. He brings all of this here. 

Filmed in New Zealand, the sets and cinematography are exquisite. The only thing I found a little jarring was the more minor character's New Zealand accents mixing in with more mainstream American ones. it wasn't a deal breaker, but it did raise an eyebrow or two. 

Although I'm still more a fan of the book, because Kazou Ishiguro is a literary god, this is a solid film and well worth a look. 

Today's song: 

Ready to go back to work now

Dear Universe, 

I'm ready to go back to work now. I'm getting tired of dodging potholes and rabbit holes. 

The potholes are everywhere. Seriously, how are you supposed to maintain your car's suspension with these mother fornicating holes all over the place. They're everywhere. I know the Big Build was needed, but can't you take care of the small stuff? The potholes are awful. DO SOMETHING. 

Rabbit holes are something I should have better control over - yet they are everywhere. I'm trying to keep my doomscrolling to a minimum. I'm reading the news headlines but not reading things in depth - it's all too depressing. 

Social media has its joys and delusions. 

Today I watched as an acquaintance went full Dave Hughes live on Facebook. I wanted to reach through the screen, give him a gentle shake, tell him to get off the psychedelics and maybe take up with that counsellor the court was suggesting. I won't contact him. I doubt if he would remember me - but he seems to have fallen down a rabbit hole of his own. I gall at the entitlement. I would unfriend him, but the downfall is spectacular, like watching David Attenborough show lemmings jumping off a cliff. 

I'm doing a lot of cleaning. Today's job was the kitchen table. Amazingly, after removing everything, giving the table a wash, throwing out a heap of stuff and restacking the table, it looks empty.

The kettle which has been sitting on said table is being sent over to JB Hifi for recycling tomorrow. 

My crochet projects are coming along well. Blarney will get her blanket for Christmas. I'm not sure where the other one will be going. 

By the end of the month I'll have read 10 books. 

I'm writing too. 

In all, I've enjoyed these few weeks off. But it's becoming time to go back to work.

I've got an interview at 9.30 tomorrow morning. You never know - it may not be too long until this holiday lark is over. Wish me luck.

Today's song:

And so it goes...

In Slaughterhouse Five, Kurt Vonnegut marks every death in to book with the words,"So it goes."

Words of acceptance. Words of completion. Words of futility. Words suggesting there is more to this.

I'm glad Gloria and I went to the funeral together. It was a good chance the catch up and not get too caught up in various thoughts of mortality. Gloria is good company, and besides, her car is in need of some work. The drive out to Springvale around midday wasn't too arduous, a coffee was bought at the McDonalds drive through to help us get there quicker. 

Gloria also pointed out that our friend in the box at the front was the same age as her - they were born a fortnight apart. I can see why this would make you feel a little unsettled. 

Me, I was in attendance for my friend, his wife. Speaking to her the days before, she intimated that he was ready to go, that he as at peace. After 18 years living with prostate cancer, the last few years were not good. In the last few months, he barely left hospital and was looking to transfer to hospice care when he died. As I said, he was ready. 

So it goes. 

It's still sad. 

It was a celebration he would have enjoyed. We could feel him in the chapel, the coffin draped in his much-favoured tie-dyed fabric and his Aston Villa scarf, with lots of pictures of him as a younger man, with his family in Britain, and his time in Australia. I man that was hard to recognise, as I'd only known him for the last 20 years when his hair was grey. The only thing the same was the smile. He appeared to like changing his hairstyle and facial hair. He also liked wearing shorts, much to the snickers of the chapel. 

His family spoke of him as a kind man, generous with is time, slow to judge, wise and spiritual. He could, and would, talk to anybody. He had a big heart and a yearning for spiritual knowledge. You can't ask for much more than that. 

Talking to his wife afterwards, we spoke of the love at the funeral. He had got a say in the day, choosing the songs they played, nothing dirge-like. It was at his suggesting the coffin be covered with the tye-dyed cloth and football scarf. I'm thankful he had said something of his wishes in his final weeks. His wife had threatened him with a full Greek Orthodox service if he said nothing, being the religion he had converted to marry her all those years ago.

It did the trick. He spoke up. 

After a cup of tea, some sandwiches and a sausage roll, a chat with others from the meditation group we are all a part of, Gloria and I made our way back to the city, pleased we had seen our friend off and supporting our friend in the process. 

"The worst thing is the older you get, the more of these you go to," said Gloria. 

"It seems to be the case."

"They captured him well."

"He was in the chapel, I could feel him," I mentioned. 

"He's keeping an eye on her."

"Indeed."

A little later, I asked Gloria, "Have you though what you might like for your funeral?"

"Oh yes," she replied, "Something witchy. Lots of chanting and candles and incense to piss off the neighbours."

"And you in a wicker coffin, strewn with bright flowers and your mates dancing around you to sacred rhythms, with the bodhran beating and tambourine rattling. I can see it!"

"I might have to put that in the instructions. Death is so sanitised."

"It is. But I wonder how many times a coffin has been draped with tye-dyed material at the crematorium."

We giggled. It was so him. 

So it goes. 

What else can you do?

Today's song: 

Pick a card

I'm writing this on Monday morning as last night, the inspiration was low. 

Now, I'm procrastinating as I'm off to a funeral in a bit, and facing one's mortality is never fun. It will be a celebration for a friend - somebody I can't say I knew particularly well, but I am going to show support for his wife, who I know a lot better. My mate Gloria is coming around in about an hour and we will drive out to Springvale together. Although a sad occasion, he is now at peace after years of illness. 

Anyway, I pulled a card last night from the journalling deck which reads "What do people say you can't do?"

Hmm. 

This is a loaded question.

I say I can do anything. 

The internet tries to tell me that I can buy anything. 

I'm not sure if anybody cares what I do or don't do. 

If you asked me to touch my toes without bending my knees, I can't. Give me six months of flexibility training and that will turn into a maybe.  

Could I get into medical school? Probably not, but I give it a red hot go. That's more an age thing. 

I'm often told that I can't say this or that. I have a very selective filter. I'm also known for not doing what I'm told to do. It's part of my make up. 

Ask me what I say I won't do - an easier question to answer. 

Here are ten things I won't do:

1. Drive drunk.
2. Travel to the United States of America in the current political climate. 
3. Be cruel to animals (rubbing Lucifer's belly excepted, but that is just rage baiting)
4. Illicit intravenous drugs.
5. Subscribe to Murdoch media. 
6. Vote Liberal or One Nation. 
7. Burpees - under any conditions.
8. Climb to the top of Salisbury Cathedral to change the aircraft warning lights (I watched a video yesterday - absolutely NO WAY would I do that)     
9. Have children (that ship has passed). 
10. Tell you what you can't do - that's not in my makeup. I might suggest you not do something, but you're responsible for your own decisions. 

Today's song:

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